With a nudge from Donna JT Smith, I’m jumping back into Two Writing Teachers’ Slice-of-Life Challenge!
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We’re in the last week of the NYC Writing Project Invitational Summer Institute. I can’t believe we’ve gotten here so quickly.
This is my 6th year involved with the NYCWP & my 2nd year co-facilitating the ISI. Every summer is a gift. Every summer I say, “This is the best group we’ve had!” I can’t help it; every summer, it’s the truth.
These past few weeks, many of our Fellows have thanked me, for workshops, for the opportunity to be here, for my contributions to potlucks. One of our participants got me right in the feels when he thanked me for helping him connect with other teachers like him, his people.
I’ve been turning that over in my head since then, because this past school year was one of those years. I came to the end so ragged & drained that even the thought of the magical, restorative, wondrous ISI seemed daunting. But after a few hours with this summer’s amazing group of teachers, I realized that I’d forgotten one of the most important things I’ve learned about teaching when times get tough: I need my people.
When that Fellow thanked me for helping him find his people, I told him that we can get through a lot by knowing there are people like us, with us, along the way. That was a reminder for myself, a truth I need to carry with me & hold dear as I ride waves of school reform that threatens my students, as I clench my jaw through meetings with close-minded colleagues. You have people, I can remind myself. They’ve got your back.
Every summer with the NYCWP ISI is a gift. This summer has reminded me of my people, & reconnected me with who they are.
My people believe in stories, their power, the privilege of hearing & sharing them, their wisdom, their pricelessness.
My people know they are never done, and they remind me of the joy in that never. My people know that never comes with always, & never done means always learning, always open to the wonders ahead.
My people hold their brilliance in their hands, ready to share & exchange & collect.
My people heal with humor & open ears, with emphatic nods & exuberant faces. My people know that listening is active & their whole bodies attune.
My people are teachers & writers & readers, storytellers & sharers. They are thought-provokers, who challenge assumptions not to antagonize but to agitate the mind, because an active mind is a mind ready to learn. They are welcoming & warm & full of wonder. They know when to advise & when to just let the tension hang in the air while they hmmm. They know it’s not about having al the answers, but asking all the questions. They delve into the mess & honor its value. They treasure, they collect, they celebrate. These are my people, & just knowing that they are out there keeps me going.
Wonderful slice of life. This walk is so much easier with people by our side.
Thanks, Loralee!
I confess to be on the search for my people and hoping I’ll meet some at next week’s writing institute. I’m a little shy about putting my work forward to share with others, and I know I deprive myself of that community when I do. But every day I go a little more into the world and reading posts like yours is confirmation that community is important to growth and sustenance. Thanks for sharing.
They’re out there, Laura. What writing institute will you be entering? That’s such a great step for building your writing, & the community is so rewarding. Thank you for reading!!
I just became involved in the writing project last summer… And it is so transformative. ❤
LOVE seeing your name ❤
Priscilla, despite you being in NY and not getting an opportunity to talk in a long time, I consider you “my people.” Your words encourage and energize me to always stive to be a little bit better for my kids. Thanks for that.
John, thank you for this! You’re always my people.
Lovely! I’m one of your people too, just finished my Writing Project today in Illinois! 🙂 There is something so special about our groups, you’re totally right… I hope to keep working with the Writing Project in some way for sure!
Congratulations, Michelle! The ending is so bittersweet, isn’t it? Just keep sticking around & showing up – the NWP loves it 🙂
Oh, you have my heart, P. So much head pointing going on over here!
My people know they are never done, and they remind me of the joy in that never. My people know that never comes with always, & never done means always learning, always open to the wonders ahead.
<3!